How Boundaries Saved My Relationships

I have rules that govern my friendships. It's not even something considered universal (like the Bro Code) it's just  how I control my life and the chaos in it.   1. If you don't want my honest opinion, don't ask me a question. 2. If you do ask, at least consider my advice. You are not allowed to ask me about the same problem again otherwise. 3. I...

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Online Dating: Does It Really Make Sense?

Something has been irking me lately. I used to get so mad when I saw the eHarmony commercials with the super average looking man and the really attractive wife. According to TV, you would think that happened far less than the ad campaign is giving you hope for. That's not my particular issue this time. However, it did made me think. Just how is anyone supposed to be...

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Together or Separate: Money Matters in Relationships

For the longest time now, my boyfriend of seven years and I have been talking about getting a joint bank account. We've lived together for three years and have various bills together, so it makes sense for us to put our money together since we pretty much spend it together, right? Or maybe not. Looking for another perspective on the idea, I turned to my favorite...

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The Dreaded Friend Zone: I Know How You Got Here

I’ve been doing quite a bit of thinking about this whole “friendzone” situation and quite honestly, it doesn’t make any sense. I hear my guy friends talk about it all the time. “I listen to her all the time, I help her, I’m supportive. Why doesn’t she see that I like her?”  Well the answer to the dilemma is that you listen to her, you help her and you’re supportive....

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*3 Simple Love-ipies*

In my opinion, being in a relationship is as fun & easy as you make it.  I don't think there should be any particular rhyme or set of rules that every couple has to follow in order to make it...or is there?  I have recently entered into a committed relationship, boyfriend/girlfriend, "Facebook official" situation so learning the ropes of this exclusive dating stuff is a relative priority for me right now to make it the best situation possible for not only my guy but for myself as well.  With that being...

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The Power of Vulnerability: Live your best life

You can watch the video here A few days ago, I was watching Brene Brown's TedTalk on Netflix about vulnerability. It talked about how we need it to feel connected to others. Connection gives meaning and purpose to life. I had to think about it for a second, but it totally made sense. You have people, causes and activities that you really care about. You get to express your...

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Games & More Games...Who's really winning?

Often times in dating, it seems that men & women aren't able to get on the same page because of  the bullsh*t games that go on in order to not seem vulnerable, desperate or caring. I don't know why this has become a popular tactic for the dating game, (*pun INTENDED*) particularly when you are genuinely interested in making that person a significant part of your...

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Sarah Michelle Gellar and Freddie Prinze, Jr. Prove My Point. Communication Is The Basis of All Good Relationships!

I don't know about you guys, but I absolutely love a good hollywood love story... when it lasts. Freddie Prinze, Jr. has been one of my celeb crushes since he was Zack in 1999's "She's All That" and I worshiped SMG through all seven seasons of "Buffy the Vampire Slayer." I thought they were perfect for each other when they announced their engagement back in 2001 and subsequent...

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What Makes A Man or Woman Sexy?

It's easy right? Let's see... We see couples everyday and we say "How did he get her?" Or maybe it's"That's the girl he was talking about?". It's not as easy as you think. I walked around on my vacation and asked 100 men and women what traits or actions are considered sexy in a man or woman. Women said: 25% considered a man who is "nerdy" or really educated as...

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Hot or Not..Is Sex Appeal Really SOO Important?

Everyone wants to be attracted to their partner or potential mate & sometimes to the point where you can even brag to your friends about how hawt the new person you are dating is. Dating someone sexy, hot, fine, whatever you prefer to call it is all good & well but what about what they have to say or what they have to offer emotionally? I have found that most...

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Great Dates That Won't Leave You Broke

Photo by imagerymajestic I'm a firm believer that a date shouldn't cost an arm and a leg. After all, I like you enough to hang out with you for a couple of hours, shouldn't your time and energy be enough? Besides, the same old dinner and a movie dates get tired. So here are some great ideas to keep your dates fresh and fun while not taxing your wallet.   1....

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