The Dreaded Friend Zone: I Know How You Got Here

I’ve been doing quite a bit of thinking about this whole “friendzone” situation and quite honestly, it doesn’t make any sense. I hear my guy friends talk about it all the time. “I listen to her all the time, I help her, I’m supportive. Why doesn’t she see that I like her?”  Well the answer to the dilemma is that you listen to her, you help her and you’re supportive....

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*3 Simple Love-ipies*

In my opinion, being in a relationship is as fun & easy as you make it.  I don't think there should be any particular rhyme or set of rules that every couple has to follow in order to make it...or is there?  I have recently entered into a committed relationship, boyfriend/girlfriend, "Facebook official" situation so learning the ropes of this exclusive dating stuff is a relative priority for me right now to make it the best situation possible for not only my guy but for myself as well.  With that being...

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The Power of Vulnerability: Live your best life

You can watch the video here A few days ago, I was watching Brene Brown's TedTalk on Netflix about vulnerability. It talked about how we need it to feel connected to others. Connection gives meaning and purpose to life. I had to think about it for a second, but it totally made sense. You have people, causes and activities that you really care about. You get to express your...

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Games & More Games...Who's really winning?

Often times in dating, it seems that men & women aren't able to get on the same page because of  the bullsh*t games that go on in order to not seem vulnerable, desperate or caring. I don't know why this has become a popular tactic for the dating game, (*pun INTENDED*) particularly when you are genuinely interested in making that person a significant part of your...

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