Everyone wants to be attracted to their partner or potential mate & sometimes to the point where you can even brag to your friends about how hawt the new person you are dating is. Dating someone sexy, hot, fine, whatever you prefer to call it is all good & well but what about what they have to say or what they have to offer emotionally?
I have found that most sexy and/or really, really hot guys really just serve one purpose: to be eye candy. Now that's wonderful if you're in the club dancing & want to have a hot a** dance partner for a few songs to make the night more enjoyable or even a good memory to look back on later. However, if you're interested in a finding a sound, healthy, normal relationship with lasting potential, I am starting to feel that sexy isn't the first criteria necessary to look for.
Case in point...the sexier guys that I have dated seemed to be all about their own looks (clearly because that is their main selling point) & not too much else. As far as holding a decent conversation or being "deep" in some form or fashion, that just hasn't been available. Well thus far anyway. Perhaps there will be one that proves me wrong, but I can only speak on who I've come across here lately.
At the end of the day, it really all boils down to what you are looking for or needing from a guy or girl at that particular time in your life. If all you need is a hot bod with abs to dance with for a night & perhaps have a "nightcap" with later on then likely going for a sexy guy is the way to go. If you desire a connection that goes beyond the physical into a space where there is common understanding, respect & all that warm/fuzzy/gooey stuff then I say the average Joe may just not be all that bad.
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