Often times in dating, it seems that men & women aren't able to get on the same page because of the bullsh*t games that go on in order to not seem vulnerable, desperate or caring. I don't know why this has become a popular tactic for the dating game, (*pun INTENDED*) particularly when you are genuinely interested in making that person a significant part of your life for more than one night (i.e. boyfriend, girlfriend, spouse, etc.)
Just doesn't make sense in my book.
Then again, I can see the need for some discretion especially in the early stages of dating someone. However, the fact that one person will take advantage of another who is willing to put themselves out there by communicating regularly, express gushy feelings even if they aren't being reciprocated and make a space in their time to show they are really interested in making you a priority is very commendable in my book.
I say this to say that when dating someone you are really thinking could be a good keeper, let most of these rules, regulations and philosophies your (most often) single friends tell you to abide by and just trust who YOU are. Do what feels right to you all the time unless you are completely irrational, crazy and people you have dated have actually told you so-- in which case, you might want to rethink some things. :)
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